A Great Teammate
November 21, 2023
- Author
- Amanda Ottaway 鈥12
Robyn (Flewelling) Fralick 鈥04 with the Michigan State University Mascot
Robyn (Flewelling) Fralick 鈥04 isn鈥檛 one to back down from a challenge.
The recently appointed Michigan State University head women鈥檚 basketball coach comes to the role with a track record of success and the admiration of her peers鈥攖he choice comes as no surprise to those who knew Fralick at Davidson.
When Fralick and friend and former Davidson teammate Ashley Hallsted 鈥04 needed their P.E. water credit senior year, they decided to try sailing at Lake Campus. They got a lesson in the basics, thinking the experience would be relaxing and fun.
Then one Saturday morning, under an ominously darkening sky, the two decided to try out their skills and took a little sailboat onto the wind-swept lake.
鈥淲e don鈥檛 have any quit in us,鈥 Hallsted recalls. 鈥淪o we鈥檙e like, 鈥榊eah, let鈥檚 do it. Let鈥檚 learn how to sail in kind of squirrely weather.鈥欌
They intended to stay near the dock, but it was only a matter of seconds before a gust of wind pushed them deep into the middle of the lake. Fralick recalls being stuck in the boat, with 鈥渓iterally no idea how to sail,鈥 as the wind whisked them further away from shore. In true Fralick fashion, she found the moment hilarious.
鈥淭he sirens are going off, and the sky is turning bright red, and the winds are howling,鈥 she says. 鈥淭he winds are so strong that we鈥檙e going quite fast in the wrong direction.鈥
How they managed to get back to dry land is debatable鈥擧allsted thinks they eventually guided the boat to shore, while Fralick believes they lowered the sails and swam. When asked what lessons she took from their sailing debacle that she now applies to her work, Fralick deadpans, 鈥淐areer adaptability during chaos.鈥
A Davidson education is great preparation for life, Fralick says.
鈥淵ou have to really learn to critically think, and it鈥檚 hard. But you learn to keep sticking with it,鈥 she says.
鈥淎nd over time, I just think it gives you a lot of confidence.鈥
With the exception of sailing, she seems to have figured some things out.
On March 31, 2023, Michigan State introduced Fralick as the new head coach for their women鈥檚 basketball team, marking a return to her home state and an opportunity to guide an elite, Big Ten program. Hallsted and their close-knit group of college friends now lovingly call her 鈥淏ig Time.鈥
Super-connector
Entering her new role with a career win record of 192鈥76 at 41 years old, she will be the sixth head coach in the program鈥檚 50-year history. Her $1 million guaranteed annual compensation makes her one of the highest-paid coaches鈥攎an or woman鈥攊n women鈥檚 college basketball.
鈥淩obyn Fralick checked all the boxes, and some,鈥 said Michigan State athletic director Alan Haller at a press conference introducing her in April. 鈥淚t was clear, after talking to people across the country, she was the right person for our program.鈥
Fralick remains close with her Davidson teammates and classmates; a few booked a trip to see her first game in person, at Michigan State鈥檚 Breslin Center in East Lansing. Her ability to build strong connections
with people sets her apart. According to Hallsted, Fralick is 鈥渢he glue鈥 that holds relationships together.
Hallsted and Fralick first met while coaching a kids鈥 basketball camp the summer before their freshman year at Davidson. Fralick brought an album full of photos of her high school friends, and she shared stories about each of them with her new friends at the camp, Hallsted recalls.
鈥淪he was a super-connector, and people just automatically gravitated to her. I did, for sure. She made people feel comfortable,鈥 says Hallsted, who now works as a consultant in San Francisco.
Katherine Hatch 鈥04, a tennis player who roomed with Hallsted and became close with the women鈥檚 basketball team, said Fralick 鈥渏ust went there with people.鈥
鈥淚 feel like she was the person I met freshman year who was just asking all the questions. About anything,鈥 says Hatch, now a grief therapist living in Portland, Oregon. 鈥淭here鈥檚 an incredible curiosity about her.鈥
Fralick, also known as 鈥淏irdy鈥 to her college teammates, graduated from Davidson with a degree in psychology and a minor in religious studies, also etching her name in the basketball record books in career assists with 312.
Fralick later earned a master鈥檚 degree in counselor education from Western Michigan University.
鈥淪he鈥檚 very relational, and she brings that,鈥 Hatch says. 鈥淪he builds relationships with her players, and that鈥檚 I think what makes her special 鈥 Robyn holds people accountable and is a blast. She鈥檚 both things.鈥
Homecoming
Fralick grew up just down the road from Michigan State, attending Okemos High School. She comes to the Spartans after leaving an impressive win trail across the Midwest.
After graduating from Davidson, Fralick moved 100 miles northwest to join the coaching staff at Appalachian State University. She followed that with stints at Western Michigan and Toledo before landing at Division II powerhouse Ashland University in Ohio.
Over the course of her 10 seasons at Ashland, the team went to the Division II national championship four times. She spent her last three years there as head coach, leading the team to an incredible 104鈥3 and a national title in 2017. In 2018, she received the C. Vivian Stringer Award, given annually to an outstanding female coach.
Fralick鈥檚 decade at Ashland was marked by career success and life-changing moments, including meeting her husband, Tim, who proposed at center court; the couple鈥檚 first house; and the birth of their children, Will, 10, and Clara, 7.
Fralick left Ashland for her first Division I head coaching job at Bowling Green State University, from 2018 to 2023. She led the team to a trio of postseason bids and a remarkable U-turn from a 10鈥21 record in 2020 to 21鈥8 the following year. She was recognized as the Mid-American Conference coach of the year in 2021.
Michigan State noticed the wins and accolades, and Fralick鈥檚 capacity for building and turning around programs. After a nationwide search, Michigan State hired Fralick under a six-year contract. She brought her Bowling Green staff with her.
For her Davidson friends, Fralick鈥檚 professional success just makes sense.
鈥淚t鈥檚 been incredible to watch her progress, but I will tell you this, we are not super surprised at all,鈥 says Hatch. 鈥淚t just seems like what鈥檚 happening for her is just aligned with who she is.鈥
Former longtime Michigan State coach Suzy Merchant resigned in March after 16 seasons, citing medical reasons. Fralick, who herself played through a coaching transition at Davidson, says she tries to keep the players鈥 emotional mindset close when she鈥檚 on the sidelines, remembering what it feels like to be out there.
鈥淚 think sometimes we live under this silly assumption that if we just do some team bonding events, we鈥檙e going to be a connected team,鈥 she says. 鈥淏ut the reality is, every day, and everything you鈥檙e doing, you鈥檙e building or breaking the team. Every day.鈥
Staying Healthy
Fralick doesn鈥檛 just preach this kind of holistic mindset to her players, she lives it.
Her children have always been fixtures in their mother鈥檚 coaching life.
鈥淚 get asked a lot about work-life balance,鈥 Fralick says. 鈥淔or me, it鈥檚 work-life integration. My kids come to the gym with me. They go recruiting with me sometimes. They come to games, they go on road trips. Can they be distracting? Sure, but in the best of ways, right? In a way that keeps you feeling human and normal and connected.鈥
At a time when no one seems quite sure whether women really can have it all鈥(鈥淲e can try,鈥 Fralick says)鈥攕he sets an example for her young players.
鈥淎s a leader, you鈥檝e got to kind of always be finding ways to stay healthy,鈥 she says, 鈥渢rying to keep some level of normal life.鈥
Fralick stresses the core value of being a great teammate: to each other, the campus and the community.
鈥淣ot everything has to be basketball,鈥 she says. 鈥淲e鈥檙e identifying how these core values just make life [in general] better.鈥
Hatch keeps a copy of the core values Fralick handed out to their friend group (at their request) tacked to her refrigerator.
鈥淚t鈥檚 so Robyn,鈥 she says. 鈥溾楤e a great teammate.鈥 They鈥檙e simple, but they鈥檙e beautiful.鈥
This article was originally published in the Fall/Winter 2023 print issue of the Davidson Journal Magazine; for more, please see the Davidson Journal section of our website.